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An open letter to Mrs. BWF,

We, the women from your list, are willing to publicly address any questions or address any accusations you have with our actions. We feel the need to make some points.

A)   Mama Tao Jymson is not a homebirth loss mother but many of us are.  Mama Tao acts of her own will and is not on anyone’s payroll. In fact, all money made by The Mama Tao blog is donated to Doctors Without Borders to provide health care to third world countries.

B)    We at no time have bullied anyone. If you are willing to make these statements please provide proof of the e-mails we supposedly sent. However, an e-mail was allegedly sent out with our personal information on it accusing us of harassment. This could be considered defamation of character without proof. Mama Tao has never used Mrs. BWF’s real name, and her parody of her was merely of her ideas and not personal, thus constitutionally protected.

C)   Not a single one of us ever threatened Mrs. BWF or her family. We made no calls, e-mails, Private messages, texts, or drive-bys

D)   Disagreement with someone’s philosophies is in no way the same as harassment, especially when the disagreement happens in a public forum such as Facebook. We have made multiple attempts to engage in respectful polite exchange, but were immediately deleted. With a community of over 7000, editing out different opinions, even if they are against what you believe shows an unwillingness to provide both sides of an argument—the staple of education and knowledge.

E)   We would be more than willing to provide you with screen shots of our IP addresses as soon as pictures of the supposed bullying e-mails are provided to us.

D)   We in no way support anyone who would personally attack Mrs. BWF. While we do disagree and have a satire site that makes fun of ideas, we do not believe in ANY way in personal attacks on an individual or her children. We urge Mrs. BWF to report all threats to the proper authorities ASAP.

Sincerely,

The Ladies from Your Blacklist

As new MAMAs  join our page, we grow into an even bigger community of judgemental women! This is exciting!

I want to *gently* inform our ‘newcomers’ how our “community” works. We are about educating and supporting women in Birthing our way or the highway! We’re all different, are on our own journeys and have different experiences. We’re respectful of that and supportive of each other’s choices. However please remember that my way is *really* the only “right” way…

What has been so amazing about BWFOD is how wonderfully this has worked. As we grow though, new mamas join the page and do not realize the tone of our community. This is not like other FB pages where things are posted for debate. Mamas post looking for support here and we give it. Different experiences and opinions are always welcome as long as they are to support and are respectful. By support, I of course mean support of anything not mainstream. mainstream people are really sheeple. They need to MOOve on off this site.

If someone wants to debate or discuss an issue they can start a discussion under the Discussions tab. Please use discretion in where and how you post. The amount of love and support given on this page has been immense and I have worked so hard to make sure our community maintains this feeling of compassion and support (by banning more people than not)

At this point, I have to say it. If anyone is disrespectful, rude, uses name calling or attacks me or anyone else, they will be banned…first offense. I, like any good queen rule with an iron fist… I have dedicated more time than many know because I want so badly to support women to Birth Without Fear Of Dissent. I am not sure where my children have run off to, but since we unschool i am sure they will be fine…..but, anyhow— I will not tolerate this behavior and will not let a few people undo what thousands of us have so beautifully done for almost a year now.

Also, I don’t tell women to do anything, i merely inform them and wait for them to see the light!  With all of that, I support women in their choices even if they are different than my beliefs. But , please-if i do not agree with you–move on mama, you are no MAMA. This is how we support each other to Birth Without Fear of Dissent…. This is how we make a difference-one stretched vagina at a time!

Please mamas, take advantage of this page. Enjoy the love and support women truly can give each other. It is an amazing experience. ♥

~Mrs. BWFOD

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